Put two people in identical circumstances, and one rises to the top but the other sinks under the weight of the past. What makes the difference?
At the age of 3, Ed Hajim is kidnapped by his father, driven cross-country and told his mother is dead. He presses his face against the car window, watches the miles pass and wonders where life will take him, where you’d least expect.
In a memoir filled with human drama, wisdom and timeless life lessons, On the Road Less Traveled: An Unlikely Journey from the Orphanage to the Boardroom tells the improbable story of how Hajim bounced from foster homes to orphanages, in a daily struggle to survive, to live the American dream as an accomplished Wall Street executive and model family man with great moral fiber and the means to give back to a world that seemed intent on rejecting him.
It’s a powerful story touched with family trauma, deprivation and adversity balanced by a life of hard work and philanthropy.
“While his childhood travails of loneliness, isolation, and poverty would have broken most people, Ed channeled his survival instincts and conquered his inner demons to become a loving family man and a beloved leader of people,” says Raj Echambadi, Dunton family dean at D’Amore-McKim School of Business, Northeastern University.
Hajim served as a senior executive at such firms as E.F. Hutton, Lehman Brothers, Furman Selz and other financial institutions, regularly transforming fledgling operations into profitable growth machines. His life accomplishments were rightfully acknowledged in 2015 with the Horatio Alger Award, given to Americans who exemplify the values of initiative, leadership and commitment to excellence, and who have succeeded despite personal adversity.
On the Road Less Traveled is packed with anecdotes of how Hajim used his ingenuity to achieve his goals and also provides insight into what he learned from some of his life’s defining moments.
Throughout his career, Hajim was guided by his instincts to know when a situation had run its course. “Sometimes it’s better to sever ties and leave on your own, even if the next step is unknown,” he writes. “That’s often the road less travelled, but it’s so worth the journey.” The “unknown” also played a major part in Hajim’s personal life, when a long-kept secret he couldn’t possibly have imagined was revealed.
Joel Seligman, president emeritus of the University of Rochester, says, “Ed Hajim’s On the Road Less Traveled does full justice to a remarkable life lived by a remarkable man. You will learn much about why one man who began with nothing achieved so much and did so much for so many.”
On the Road Less Traveled: An Unlikely Journey from the Orphanage to the Boardroom
Publisher: Skyhorse / ISBN-13: 978-1510764248 / Available from Amazon.com
